Change is inevitable; it is one of the most constant things in the world. Before you can transform to be a better person than what you are now, you must begin by acknowledging that you are not living your life to the best of your knowledge or to the fullest.
Allow me to start by defining the word transformation which means, to go beyond a past form or a set form. This means going against some set worldly practices which do not add any meaningful value to your personal growth. We should have a renewal of mind, and reject just anything that comes our way. By this, I mean having the audacity to say no sometimes that are detrimental to self development. Preventing your self from being conformed to everything and anything that life brings your way.
Be wary of what you see and listen to. Note that the information that you are exposed to determines the way you think, your thoughts determine your belief system, your belief system determines the choices that you make every day and your choices determine your self worth. Not every thing is good for you or beneficial to you. Start by controlling what you watch and listen to on the media, and you will achieve personal growth.
The quality of our choices reflects the quality of our lives. Every choice you make will have a consequence in your personal development. Our choices are determined by the values we develop, our perceptions to life and how we respond to these perceptions.
Strife to make the right choices, this is the only sure way of living a better and achieving personal development.